Allen's New Job

Allen started his new job today with Qwest, it is going to be an adjustment for all of us. One of the best things about it is that I get to cut back on work and be home more with the family! I had last night off, so this morning I was able to get everyone up and going, usually that is Allen's job. After Allen left for work, I had to finish getting the kids ready and get them to school, again this is usually Allen's job. It is really strange to be doing all of this again.

Now it is just Rock and I at home. Normally about this time, I am falling asleep while Allen and Rock are doing their thing, but this morning it is just Rock and I - very strange, but fun. The kids aren't too sure about all this change. The other night at the dinner table we were talking about how I would be home more and Allen would be gone during the day. We asked Sam if she was excited and she said "not so much"!!

Allen is always so laid back and not much bothers him. The girls also have him wrapped around their fingers. But I am pretty anal about things and I guess not as much fun, according to the kids. Like I said, this is going to be an adjustment for all of us. Allen, especially, is having a hard time. He feels like Rock is going to forget all about him. He has been able to spend every day and night with him for the last year and today is his first full day away from him. He has also really enjoyed spending so much time with the girls and making sure they get to dance and activities on time. Before our move to Cache Valley he always worked and didn't get the chance to do any of these things. Now he is back to that and he is struggling with it.

All in all, I think it will be good for all us. I am excited to be home and do some of the stay-at-home mom things, but I still really love my work and am glad I am able to stay working at the hospital. It is also a good thing for Allen to get out of the house and be able to socialize with people his age. We just have to make sure our family time is now spent as quality time, since there won't be as much quantity. I really love my family!

Anniversary

 
March 21 was our 11th wedding anniversary, WOW! Some days it seems much longer than that and others it feels like just yesterday Allen was trying to hit on me and get me to go out with him :)

Actually, I was the pursuer. He was friends with my roommate's boyfriend and I happened to think he was pretty hot. I made Ashley and Corey set us up. He was an entire HOUR late to our first date. We went to "Fools Rush In" and just as I thought I was getting stood up, he walks in and sits next to me. Can you believe I gave him another chance? In reality, after that night we were always together, even though it took several months before we declared it "official".

So much has happened since that night; we have helped each other through so many different circumstances that I believe we can make it through whatever else comes our way. First, we had a baby born with medical problems, in and out of the hospital for years, not knowing if she was going to make it, financial struggles on top of that. Then, me finding out about Allen's drug abuse and dealing with a separation for awhile. Then Allen checked himself into rehab and we were able to work things out. Both of us went back to school at the same time with two kids at home. Then, Allen had to deal with me while I worked through some awful childhood memories that no one should have to endure.

Now we are so happy and have grown so much. We have 3 beautiful children, own our home, made some pretty good traditions and our next step? It may take awhile, but I do believe that we will make it to the temple. I love my husband and am proud of what he has accomplished after all that he has been through. I am glad that he has stuck by me through everything and am excited to see what life throws at us next.

Parent Teacher Conferences

Last week was parent-teacher conferences and we met with Danni's and Sam's teachers. My kids are so much like me...VERY intelligent!! Danni is in the 1st grade and her teacher, Mr. James, is amazing. He couldn't say enough good about Danni. His teaching style suits Bubs' personality so well. She is above average in all subjects and just keeps progressing. She even helps other kids in the class with their reading during group time. She is part of a reading group that works on reading the 2nd and 3rd grade levels. What a smartie pants!! Mr. James gave us some ideas and suggestions to keep Bubba progressing, so we will start working on those.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sammi is doing just as well. She is mainstreamed in the 4th grade and is in Mr. Rock's class. She also gets to attend sessions during the day with Mrs. Bennett, Mrs. Carter, Mrs. Bodily and Mr. Bulloch. What a special girl that she gets so many amazing teachers!! The circumstances surrounding her liver transplant six years ago just made it so that she is able to work with so many special people in her education. As we met with her teachers, we learned that that she hasn't always brought home her paperwork, so alot of the assignments were being missed. This is something we are working on together. But she is definitely progressing in her knowledge and skills. She is extremely bright and just needs to be reminded now and then.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I feel that education is very important and really hope that I am able to pass that concept on to my kids. I hope that they will realize the necessity of a college-education and work towards that. For now, they are on that path and I'll do whatever I can to help along the way.

One-year check-up

Rock had his one year check-up a few weeks ago. He is still growing and seems to be taking after his mother...he is very good looking! He weighed 24.5 pounds, which is the 75th percentile; was 30.5 inches tall, which is the 75th percentile; and his head was 19.75 inches, which is greater than the 95th percentile - do you think he has a big head? He now has 8 teeth and loves to use them on any kind of food (especially scrambled eggs). He is walking almost like a pro now and is in to everything!! (He is teaching the girls the hard way to pick their stuff up!!!!)


He loves to remind us all who is in charge! The other day Allen was feeding Rock, but I guess not fast enough. He grabbed Allen's shirt collar, pulled him to eye level and screamed in his face. He wanted his food!! Another time when I was putting him down for a nap, I tried to get him to lay his head on my shoulder. He just looked at me, said "mama" and shook his head no at me! I couldn't help but laugh and give him a major loves. We all spoil him tooooooo much. I think it's because he is the baby, but also because we know that his is our LAST baby!!

Twilight

I took my lunch break at midnight last night to go to Walmart. I wasn't sure how big of a crowd I would run in to, but decided it would still be worth it. I was one of many to buy the new release "Twilight". Back at work, the girls and I watched it! What a great movie, I am so looking forward to it's sequel!!!!

Happy St. Patrick's Day

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Moose

I was trying out a new editing program a friend told me about last night which opened up all the pictures we've downloaded onto our computer. As I looked back through our pictures, I realized again that I have some dang cute kids!!! I found these pictures of Moose, a Great Dane puppy Danni got last year right after Rock was born. He was one of the best dogs we ever had. We had to give him to another family because of our allergies, that was one of the saddest days our family has experienced. Because of this, Bubba has decided that she gets to pick out our next family dog - years from now ;)!!

Family

This last weekend Grandpa Russ & Grandma Denise, Grandma Glenna, Katelyn, Becky & Randy and their kids came to visit. We celebrated Rock’s birthday and then went to a dance performance and watched the girls perform. First, we went to the Cache Valley Fun Park and let the kids play. It was very busy but they all seemed to have fun. We adults roasted in the crowded building as we all tried to keep an eye on the kids. We then went to dinner at Golden Corral – not my first choice (or even my second, for that matter), but the kids love it and really wanted to go. Once again the staff sang Happy Birthday to Rock and he just starred wondering what was wrong them. After the dance performance we had cake and ice cream and let Rock blow out a candle. Sam tried to stuff Rock’s face in the cake, but her plan backfired and she got frosting all over herself instead!! Grandpa and Grandma gave Rock a really cool little red car that he absolutely adores. He had a blast as all the cousins took turns pushing him in it. Now he’ll sit in it and expect one of us to push him around. Grandma Glenna gave him the Little People barn set – he loves to listen to all the animal sounds. Becky, Randy and family gave him a little remote control car that is VERY loud (Allen has said that in return he is going to give one of their kids a drum set!), but it is also very cute and he gets a kick out of watching it go all over. His sisters gave him a bunch of hot wheels and carrying case, I’m not sure if they picked it out for him or for themselves because they seem to play with the cars more than he does. Grandma Ruby sent him money which he very obediently put into his savings account. Aunt Kelly and family sent him some of the cutest clothes that make him look so grown up and a stuffed animal. He made a haul on this birthday!! Thanks everyone for all the gifts, he has had so much fun with all of them!!!!
Grandpa Russ and Rock

Zach and Rock doing the Wii Fit

Danni, Katelyn, Grandma Glenna, Sam and Rock

Zach, Sarah, Sam, Katelyn and Danni

Sarah, Sam, Katelyn, Grandma Denise, Danni, Zach, Grandpa Russ, Rock

I am very thankful for my own washing machine and dryer!!!

This morning Allen and I took a whole crapload of laundry to the laundramat because we have let it get ridiculously out of hand. We were so backed up and just could not seem to get caught up, I HATE laundry!!!! After 13 loads and $40 worth of quarters (can you believe how much it costs to wash and dry clothes?) we are done. Now we just have to put it all away, a chore all it's own. I've always just taken my washer and dryer for granted, but not anymore - I don't ever want to have to do laundry that way again!!! At least at home I can fold the clothes as I watch T.V.